The Edge of Whelmed
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"Houston, we have lift off!"

8/22/2015

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It was a nice trip in its own way, but so emotional.  The car was crammed to the roof all the way down to Washington.  Once we unloaded at his new apartment the car felt huge and empty, rather like the house feels now.  The place itself is very tidy and charming, and his roommates seem personable and welcoming.  The neighborhoods between his home and his work are a little....let's call them "quaint"...but he'll learn how to maneuver, and which streets are safe to travel and which aren't.

It feels so strange to talk about "his home" when it is so very far away from here.  This will always be his home to me, I suppose, at least until he meets someone and starts a "home" of his own.  But school is behind Son Number One for the moment, and the Real World Job starts on Monday.  He will blow them away with his intelligence and his charm and his affability.  Washington will be a great place for him to strut his stuff.  I think he's a little nervous about the whole venture, but I predict that within a week he'll feel as though he's been there all his life.

I am so grateful to live in the age of cell phones and text messages and Face Book.  It makes him feel nearer, and for a while I'm going to need that illusion.  It's a new phase for all of us, and I need to figure out how my end of things works.  I'm free to audition for more plays or take a class or (hah!) start an exercise program.  It's a little scary for me, too.  But we are both going to rock this.  And I'm counting the days until Thanksgiving!  But until then, go get 'em, Chief.  It's a whole new day and the world needs what you have to give!


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Heading South

8/2/2015

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The songbirds have already started heading south, and so, next week, will Son Number One as he begins his new career in Washington, D.C.  He's got a lovely job as a Paralegal with the Department of Justice, and we've bought him enough suits to keep him stylish down there.  But as with the exodus of my feathered friends, I have some mixed feelings going on here.  Granted, I was sure that with a degree in Political Science he was doomed to at least a year of "Would you like fries with that?", but he surprised me and is off to continue his charmed life elsewhere.  I know it's not far away, but it's light years from reading him and his brother a story every night (or the complete collections of "Harry Potter" or "Chronicles of Narnia"), and singing a lullaby in the dark.

He's a little ambiguous, too.  As annoying as we are as parents, there appears to be some affection left and he's actually going to miss us, I think.  We'll drive him down and get him set up in his new apartment before flying off to see his brother in Ohio where we will celebrate Son Number Two's 21st birthday, to my complete amazement.  And then we will fly home to a collection of empty nests, including our own.

In this day of Face Book and  Skype and cell phones it's not all that hard to keep in touch.  And as we've established, I'm quite capable of taking out the garbage and cutting the grass myself.  But I certainly will miss the muscular hugs from this grown man who traveled under my heart for 40 weeks and will dwell in it forever.  Look out, world!  Here he comes!  And he's going to be SPECTACULAR!!!

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